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 与其竭尽全力与时间赛跑,然后在徒劳无功的奔波中懊恼心酸,不如顺手抓住时间的尾巴,悠闲自得地惬意前进,尽情享受上天赐与的每一段人生。这种观点并不怪异,也不消极,而且正在很大一部分女人群里慢慢滋生,悄然流行。这类女人最喜欢选择黄昏的时候,半躺在阳台的摇椅上,微阖双眼,不去思考明天还没有做不完的工作,也不去计划明天全家人的菜单,她们就像一只正在午睡的猫,尽情舒展开自己的身体,卸下或精明能干或高深莫测的伪装,静静地享受着夕阳洒下的温暖的余晖,这种女人,最喜欢在看似散漫无意的过程中领悟人生的真谛,也最容易在慵懒淡然间拾取到意想不到的收获,然后,依然仿若无事地继续恬然安睡。
  曾经,人们往往因为有着远大的理想而缺乏充足的时间来实现而显得懊恼,如今,更多的人是因为时间留下的生命刻痕而恐慌,特别是很多女人,随着时光流逝韶华褪色而日益不安,恨不得倾尽全力跑到时间的前头,拦住飞逝的光阴,留住往昔的风采,于是,美容美体、保养健身等行业应运而生,用铺天盖地的广告、幼稚可笑的谎言引诱着处于恐慌中的女人,让她们心安理得地掏出钞票,在食疗、药补、化妆、手术之间忙乱地寻求一种心理安慰。看着那些忙忙碌碌明知不可为而为之的女人无奈地与时间赛跑和抗争,这些慵懒的女人总是洒然一笑,然后拿本杂志径自走上自家的阳台,自得其乐地修心养性,相比之下,她们更在意的是阳台上那缕渐渐消失的夕阳余晖。
  慵懒女人其实并不愚蠢,也不消极,相反正因为她们有太多时间进行思考,有太多精力修心养性,因此在很多场合她们显得更加自信、更加洒脱、更加游刃有余。她们向往自然,并不代表她们愿意勘破红尘脱离尘世,而只是愿意找一个清晨或黄昏,漫步于人流稀少的江边,看太阳东升西落,看群鸟归宿投林,或俯身掬一把江水,轻轻洗涤不经意染上的俗世尘灰。她们喜欢安静,但并不代表她们热衷独处,只是在越喧嚣越热闹的场合,她们往往只带一双睿智的眼睛周旋于人与人之间,藏锋显拙,更多时候喜欢用沉默寡言的姿态来掩饰着惠质兰心。她们善于思考,但并不沉迷于枯燥高深的理论学术,只在乎关系自身实际的生活哲理,能知晓人生大致的客观规律,能把握得失进退的最佳时机,能在红尘俗世中寻得一席安身之位,也能在尔虞我诈的社会上恰到好处地明哲保身。
  随着社会生活的不断加快,疲惫奔波的人流不断增多,恰好正是这一群慵懒的女人,悄然营造起一片片安静悠闲的天地,因此,与她们相处,完全可以放心卸下全副沉重的伪装,坦然相对也安然无恙,因为她们懒于伤人;即使对方心存歹念,她们也会在第一时间洞悉那潜藏的动机,用她们看似毫不设访的方式让对方的锋芒如触及一堆软软的绵花,在毫无着力之处后知趣而退。想走进这些慵懒女人的视线并不困难,因为她们懒于拒绝,然而,要想走进她们的世界却并不容易,因为她们懒于交往,除非你有足够的耐心去等待回应,有足够的诚心去接受审视,有足够的自信去替代她的选择,否则,她宁愿施施然回到阳台的躺椅上,因为在她们看来,享受阳光的温暖远比剖析人的心思更简单、更容易、更真实。
 
  ——谨以此文祝女同胞们节日快乐、享受慵懒!

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